Playfulness
and happiness; Playfulness and creativity; Happiness in
creative state. I feel they are almost synonymous among
themselves. In other words, in that state, don't we feel a good
utilization of our talent as if it is meant to be so? Don't we
feel like being really "alive"? Don't we feel bliss,
no words can describe? And if so, how important is it to be
connected to that state of playfulness, creativity and happiness?
Observe
children in the sandbox. Are they happy, playful and perhaps
creative? What about me writing this blog? Am I playful,
creative, and happy? How about you immersed in your work or
hobby which you like, or perhaps having a playful moment with your
kids? And of course, how about having a moment of intimacy with
the loved one when the time has lost its meaning? Don't
you feel playful, creative, genuine and lively in such a moment?
We do not have to be children to be "qualified" to play in the sand box...
OK there may be "hurdles" to overcome before getting there- like making a living, or address concerns of this and that. Yet, as paradoxical as this may sound, are we not often dictated by those play of our own mind, to the point of blocking us from accessing those states where our senses are hightened, i.e., bright sunshine in the blue sky, vivid sense of colors of all surroundings, and smell and fresh breeze in the air. In other words, intimacy with all!
What if we lose inquisitive eyes of children but to live in fear and anxiety? What if we are caught up in our mind way too often and simply live as if according to the script from the TVs, and magazines and idiosyncrasy of the society? Lost soul, lost paradise, lost intimacy with all...fun and pleasure of eternal children are no where to be found?! Yet, I wonder, how can it be the case, especially when we are born as playful, creative, and happy children to start with? Why not to be with the bliss, or follow the bliss and let the unknown future (new DNA) to unfold? Or, whatever the task we may have, be engaged in it, forget time and space, or our self-identity.. just merged with the task at hand?
I want
to propose to define happiness as the state when we are in the "zone"
to express who we genuinely are? And, may we also define "zone"
as us connecting to the primary (the source, heart, law, order from
God)? If so, is it not absolute - beyond right and wrong of human mind?! In
other words, mind has little to do with what we may 'really' and 'truly' enjoy. Yes, very subjective, is it not? Although I recognize there
are certain "rules" to follow, but they seem to be more of
common sense, which is like not to hurt others and if possible, help
with each other. Yes, I propose, we can be playful and creative
and happy alone, or with others - if we choose to be.
Desire less and be satisfied (from Buddhist sutra)
Then, I
also see the connection to awakening or ultimate happiness (The
free state) where Lester Levenson said five elements to characterize
it, i.e., imperturbability, desireless, actionless, effortless,
and witnessing. And of course, there is no room for ego.
Happiness is tied to liveliness, and it is about creativity, playfulness, fun, love, enjoyment!!! Happiness is physical and biological!!! Also, it is tied to channeling the energy well toward new DNA whereas all cells are jumping!!! And one more to add: body/muscle is totally relaxed when you are in that state. These are the essence of LIFE, is it not?!
To end this post, here are some words of wisdom from those who walked ahead of us:
"To myself I am only a child playing on the beach, while vast oceans of truth lie undiscovered before me." - Issac Newton
When Pablo Picasso was 85, he was asked how his later paintings could be so innovative - could have the boldness and fire of a young artist's work. Picasso's reply:"It takes a long time to become young." - Pablo Picasso
"Man is a thinking reed but his great works are done when he is not calculation or thinking. 'Childlikeness' has to be restored with long years of training in the art of self-forgetfulness. When this is attained, man thinks yet he does not think. He thinks like showers coming down from sky; he thinks like the waves rolling on the ocean; he thinks like the stars illuminating the nightly heavens; he thinks like the green foliage shooting forth in the relaxing spring breeze. Indeed he is the showers, the ocean, the stars, the foliage. " - Daisetz Suzuki
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